Monday, January 23, 2006

Leave Me Alone

Inspiration: "Leave Me Alone" Michael Jackson. I know it ain't hip hop, but it's hard coming up with a hip hop quote for every situation.

What I'm Listening To: The Love Experience - Raheem DeVaughn

Question(s) I asked myself today: "Damn, did Noah just pass me in his ark?" said while driving slowly in the blinding rain on I -75 on my way back home.

What's up peeps? I just got back to ATL after spending the weekend out of town. I had a pretty good weekend of laying around and doing nothing. I took the day off from work and I hope that tomorrow I'll be refreshed and ready to get back to the grind. I promised you that I would give you an update on the stalker situation. All weekend I thought about how I could relay this story to you in my blog. I finally just decided to give you the highlights in our own words. Let's start with Friday.

Her: When are you coming over?
Me. I'm not.
Her: You said you would help me hook up my VCR.
Me: I can do that right now over the phone.
Her: Why are you so afraid to come around here?
Me: I'm not afraid, I just don't think it it's a good idea. You tend to get the wrong idea about things.
Her: What do you mean?
Me: I think you think that we are something that we are not.
Me again: You know that we are not dating, right? I mean sometimes you act like think you are my girlfriend.
Her: No I don't! What are you talking about?
Me: Remember yesterday, when you blocked your number and called me. Then you accused me of avoiding you and hurting your feelings.
Her: I didn't mean anything by it.
Me: (sarcastically) I bet you didn't. Then why did you do it?
Her: I don't wanna talk about it. I swear that all you guys are the same. You only want one thing from females.
Me: Whoa... I don't remember ever trying to hit that. If that's what I wanted, don't you think I would be coming over tonight?
Her: Whatever.
Me: Don't whatever me. You brought this up, I'm just responding to you.
Her: (seductively) Well, how come you aren't trying to get with me?
Me: To be honest, I think you are kind of a stalker. If you act like this now, just imagine what would happen if we did become intimate.
Her: (angrily) Fuck you, I ain't no stalker. I can't believe you would say that to me. You better be joking.
Me: I wish I was but all the evidence is there.
Her: (even more angrily) Fuck you, I ain't talking to your ass no more.
Me: (relieved) I think that might be for the best. (Hangs up)

In the next 30 minutes she called me 6 times. I didn't answer the phone, but I got tired of my phone ringing so I sent her this text message:

Me: What do you want!?!?
Her: To talk about something really important and can't wait
Me: I'm not up for any of your drama right now
Her: This has nothing to do with that
Me: I'll hit you up later
Her: Call me, pleeeaaassseee!!!

I shouldn't have done it, but I called back.

Me: What's so important?
Her: I didn't like the way we left things
Me: I thought this had nothing to do with that?
Her: I lied, but I had to get you to call me.
Me: There's nothing else to say. Didn't I make it clear that it's not going to work?
Her: Yes, but I want you. You're not giving me a chance.
Me: I gotta go. I'm about to go out.
Her: Are you going out with a girl?
Me: That's really none of your business. I'm out. (hangs up)

I was telling my friend Jessica about the situation and she said next time she calls I should let her answer the call. The stalker called while we were on our way home from Cafe Intermezzo. The conversation went like this.

Jessica: Hello
Her: ....ummm can I speak to Terrance?
Jessica: He's busy right now.
Her: umm...who's this?
Jessica: Would you like me to give him a message?
Her: Just tell him I called and to call me back as soon as he gets this message.
Jessica: Okay, but I don't know how long we are going to be out.
Her: (hangs up.)

I think Jessica finally got this girl to leave me alone. Everything I tried didn't work, but I hope it is sinking in that we can't be together. I hate being deliberately mean, but honesty just didn't work. Anyway I gotta go. 24 is on tonight and I need to hit the grocery store before it starts.

It was written...


Anonymous Anonymous said...

pimpin',pimpin',pimpin' you know who it is......and you talk about me i don't have any crazy shit like hat going on

Tue Jan 24, 11:54:00 AM  
Blogger T. Cas said...

Okay, anonymous. I know who you are now. Don't make me put you on blast. Remember I know all your secrets. We both know who the real pimp in Stockbridge is.

Tue Jan 24, 09:44:00 PM  
Blogger nikki said...

i am absolutely mouth agape at this sista's behavior. i mean really...she's making the rest of us sistas look REALLY BAD.

damn, but i never thought i would actually witness a sista behaving so desperately. i hope she gets help, cuz it's obvious she needs it.

Tue Jan 24, 10:50:00 PM  
Blogger T. Cas said...

Ok, I'm late but I actually am leaving a whole lot of info out of this story b/c a couple of my readers actually know her. I don't want to completely bash her. I should have added a disclaimer saying that "this woman in no way affects my views about sistas."

Thu Jan 26, 09:41:00 AM  
Anonymous The Mad Dater said...


I've Stalker Chick is no joke... I hope I never have to read a blog post that starts "So She Was Calling From In The House"... like how those slasher flicks begin - lol

The Mad Dater,
"Because there's a Bastard in all of us"

Fri Jan 27, 06:35:00 PM  
Blogger T. Cas said...

Stalker chick left me a message just repeating "I want a hug, I just want a hug." I don't know what to do about this situation.

Sun Jan 29, 02:54:00 AM  
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