Friday, March 31, 2006

Aries pt 2

Yesterday, I told you about Aries part 1. Here's some more:

My next Aries woman was Sheila. Let me just cop to it now, because when I tell the story, you’re going to figure it out anyway. I met her at school while I was still dating Lisa. I know, I know! T. is a lying, cheating dog. Really it was just this one time. Shall I continue? We were both English majors so we had many of the same classes. Sheila was an ATLien by way of Arkansas. The first thing I noticed about her was the way she said my name, not my blog name but my real name. Something about her southern drawl intoxicated me. She was dynamic, adventurous and independent. That attracted me more than her looks. We used to compete to see whose English papers would be the best. There was no other competition in our classes. Sheila and I would attend those inane study sessions with the rest of the students and basically just fall into a world of our own, with conversations totally unrelated to the topic at hand. It was just an excuse to see each other outside of a class setting.

One night I saw her at an on campus party and we retreated into our familiar pattern of ignoring everybody else around. I had a girlfriend, but it didn’t matter to either one of us at that moment. We got closer than we should have. Sheila and I just vibed like 2 compatible souls. One thing led to another and well you know the rest. Her quick wit and adventurous spirit rubbed off on me. I never imagined that I would be the one to cheat on a girlfriend, especially Lisa. Before you knew it, Sheila and I had a quasi relationship, complete with rules that we came up with to make sure neither one of us caught feelings. We kicked it for a couple of months before we came to the realization that it wouldn’t work out.

The thing about Sheila was that she refused to be controlled, under any circumstances. She had the typical Aries trait of being domineering. There were times when she would violate our cheating agreement intentionally. For example, if Sheila saw me and Lisa together on campus, she would come up to me and give me a hug. I think she did that just to see how I would react. This definitely was not a reciprocal thing. If I saw her on campus while she was with another dude, she would not even acknowledge my existence. It was like I was a character in a Ralph Ellison novel. When I would call her out on that, she would display that Aries quick temper and curse me out. Sheila certainly kept me guessing, because in the next breath, she would come back and ask when we were going to spend time together. Overall, I think Sheila was just selfish, she wanted me, but only when she wanted me. Her arrogance dictated that everything had to be on her terms. I can respect that, after all I was the bad guy in this situation anyway. We eventually broke the cheating part of our relationship off and remained friendly throughout the rest of our college days.

Lisa never found out about my transgression (unless she discovered my blog.) We were together throughout college and graduation. She eventually moved to Nashville to go to medical school, while I languished away in Savannah, in a post graduation rut, trying to figure out just what the hell I was going to do with my degree in English Language and Literature. We finally broke up when she came home for winter break. There was no animosity between us, we both just needed different. Our lives were going in separate directions. Just don’t tell her mama that. I think she still thinks we are going to get back together. More to come in part 3.

18 Comments:

Blogger NegroPino™ said...

i KNOW I SAID UPDATE..BUT DAMN U GETTING AHEAD OF YOUR SELF NOW LOL :)

Fri Mar 31, 02:26:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

awwwww this is getting good...(bb)

Fri Mar 31, 02:45:00 PM  
Anonymous My Birthday's July 19th said...

In my experience, Aries women are unmitigated B*tches! If they were just competitive and domineering I could care less. But they are also Disruptive, Violent, Narcissitic, Self-Centered, Emotionally Cruel, Flighty, Manipulative. They have no ability to follow guidelines or rules, even those that are self-imposed or for their own protection. They invented cutting their noses off to spite their faces. I have dated Aries men. They are the same as above, with a penis. Three strokes and they're done! Too busy trying to figure out how to control you to focus on good sex...
:-[

Cancers rule!

Fri Mar 31, 03:11:00 PM  
Blogger Mocha_Grl said...

Seems like you really have a thing for competitive women. Okay so now you've got me hooked on your story, I'm waiting for part three.....

Fri Mar 31, 03:26:00 PM  
Blogger nikki said...

@my birthday - i have yet to meet an aries woman i didn't like. maybe you now all the bad ones?LOL

great story, t.

Fri Mar 31, 03:43:00 PM  
Blogger SistaGirl said...

LOL @ my birthday...Aries women are not that bad...It's good to have an aries woman in your corner, shes the type that can make things happen..I'm a Taurus but had I been born 8 days earlier I would have no problem being an Aries..

T. Maybe that's why you keep getting into relationships with them, so you like assertive women huh? LOL

Fri Mar 31, 04:17:00 PM  
Blogger NegroPino™ said...

Sheila sounds like me..and what women would wanna be controlled?

Fri Mar 31, 04:37:00 PM  
Blogger Unsaid said...

i represent for the positive aries women...continuously. lol

i like this...it is a strange coincidence that you are trying to date every aries in America.

Fri Mar 31, 08:07:00 PM  
Blogger T. Cas said...

@ ms new booty - be careful what you ask for. u told me to update

@ bb - wait til you read part 3, straight comedy

@ July 19th - tell us how you really feel about Aries. LOL.

@ mocha - I'm a competitive guy, so I like a challenge. Part 3 on Monday morning.

@ nikki - If you met the Aries in part 3, you wouldn't like her.

@ sistagirl - Assertive is cool, especially since I'm kinda laid back.

@ ms new booty (2) - nobody wants to be controlled, but with Sheila there was absolutely NO compromise.

@ unsaid - Its just a coincidence I think, but stay tuned to the part 3.

Fri Mar 31, 09:11:00 PM  
Blogger cupcake27 said...

Back on the scene!!!!!!

Sat Apr 01, 04:47:00 PM  
Blogger cupcake27 said...

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Sat Apr 01, 04:47:00 PM  
Blogger muffin said...

*singing and dancing*

Oh, sugar where you been
Hangin' out with your male friends
Listen, somebody's going to hurt you
The way you love, to keep hurting me, we say

Oh oh Sheila let me love you
Till the morning comes
Oh oh Sheila you know I want
To be the only one

OH! SHEILA!

Sun Apr 02, 01:56:00 AM  
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