Tuesday, November 14, 2006

Open Letter

I suppose it's my turn to be evil and mean spirited. I should seize the opportunity to say what I have been wanting to say for months, but have not said because I am too nice. I should point out the hipocracy that emanates from your very being. I should tell everyone why I don't mess with you and haven't for awhile. Perhaps I should give specific examples, forward emails and IM's of your words and my responses of when this has happened numerous times in the past. If I explain myself maybe things will be put in their proper perspective.

But I'm not going to do that. If this is how you feel, then stick to it this time, the fourth time. Don't come back at me in a few weeks trying to mend fences. Don't try to get me involved with you again. Don't talk about me to other people which is the very crime that you are accusing me of. Don't jump to conclusions without talking to me, the other crime you accuse me of.

Just go away. Fade Away. No need to check me out twice an hour. You owe me no loyalty and I owe you no loyalty. Don't expect me to do what you want me to do, because as you say, I never have your back, so why should you expect me to have it now? I'm the pariah in this situation, so just move on. Don't worry about the things you did repeatedly to affect this friendship, just put all the blame on my shoulders.

I can take it. I couldn't care less if we ever talk again. You don't have to ever check out It Was Written again. You don't have to know what is going on in my life. These things do not affect you, nor should they affect you in my opinion. I don't need to read your words of anger, then your back peddling once your emotional state returns to normal. If this is the end, then let it be the end. I'm okay with that, and I hope that you are okay with that too. As I told you so often, it is what it is, so just let it be that. Go sell your poison somewhere else, cuz I am not buying it anymore. Just don't delude yourself into thinking that your actions had nothing to do with it.

It was written...


Blogger Nika Laqui said...

Uh oh....who did it?

Tue Nov 14, 09:36:00 AM  
Blogger nikki said...

dude, i didn't even put you out there like this. YOU did this shit. i check your blog to make sure you take off the link to my shit.you do that and believe me when i say i won't be back.

and just so you know, nobody knew who i was talking about. i said what i said and i don't regret a word of it, but in the end we both have to exist in this space and it makes no sense to create a divided camp. yet again you put your shit out there without thinking, exposing people by making direct (yet somehow indirect) references to me like a child. you want people to know of who you speak, and for what? what does this shit her accomplish other than to expose you as someone who can't be trusted to at least vent with a level of discretion?

i hope nobody else pisses you off and then vents about your behavior. otherwise, they're libel to have you write some shit about them (and yet not about them, you're so fucking clever).

Tue Nov 14, 09:37:00 AM  
Blogger nikki said...

oh, and go ahead and delete that shit there. i'm sure you will.

Tue Nov 14, 09:38:00 AM  
Blogger T. Cas said...

Nik? I don't delete comments. That's not my style. This is what I'm saying. I didn't mention your name, just as you didnt mention mine. If anything, you just put yourself out there. Let's just be done with it, cool?

Tue Nov 14, 10:06:00 AM  
Blogger DurtyMo715 said...

Ok let's take a step back and breathe. Seriously. I have no idea what's going on so my advice may not even apply but here is what I have to say. This is Cas' blog he can say whatever he feels and if that means calling you out, then hey, thats his perogative. And honestly I don't see this as him putting you out there, I see it as him blowing off some steam and telling what he feeling, can't fault a man for doing that whether he is at right or not. But I know how it feels when you think your character has been compromised so Nikki all I can say is let it go and who cares if he has your link on his page? How old are we? Ok I'm done cuz really I have no idea what's goin on. That's just my view from the outside. Holla!

Tue Nov 14, 10:08:00 AM  
Blogger tjeanise said...

Ahh I just read the comments...

Tue Nov 14, 10:12:00 AM  
Blogger nikki said...

rashan, really. you think that by not mentioning my name you somehow didn't think your intelligent readers (many of whom read my blog) wouldn't put two and two together? please don't insult mine (or their) intelligence. call it what it is, dude. and i was done with it two days ago. the only reason it pops up again is because of how you chose to vent your anger. i don't fault you for expressing yourself, as you have just as much right to make your statements as i do. however, the difference here is that nobody who reads your blog would have known to connect what i said to you. i made my cut direct for the eyes of the person it was meant for only. this is not what you did, dude. that's bad form and frankly, regardless of what i've said, i've never questioned your intelligence.

Tue Nov 14, 10:18:00 AM  
Blogger Blah Blah Blah said...

...what Nik and TCas?....


C'mon....fa real?

Naw...couldn't be...again?


I know I'mma get blasted by both of you....but eff it...



34 and 35 or is that 36....either way...it's 13 and 15....maybe even 12...


...but y'all write so well...y'all play fair in the blog game...well, at least one of you does. Yet, your such a good read....but ....

::yea, I'm not the diplomat...not the ambassador to the blog world...just bloop doing bloopty shit...


Tue Nov 14, 10:20:00 AM  
Blogger Mocha_Grl said...


gotta do what you gotta do.

maybe seperate ways are best, no joy in either of you experiencing this type of drama.


Tue Nov 14, 10:31:00 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Uhm nikki you didn't mention TCas name on your blog but I assumed he was who you were talking about and anyone who follows his and your blog figured it out too.

Tue Nov 14, 10:39:00 AM  
Blogger NegroPino™ said...

Map please...cuz im one of the unfortunate who didnt put 2+2 together.......(((HUGS))))

Tue Nov 14, 11:06:00 AM  
Anonymous The Goddess said...

WOW! I'm speechless!

Tue Nov 14, 11:44:00 AM  
Blogger thee modern isis said...

I agree with Mocha.

Sometimes things are for the best.

Tue Nov 14, 11:44:00 AM  
Blogger SandyBaby said...

K, I really have no idea what's going on here....

Tue Nov 14, 12:48:00 PM  
Blogger T. Cas said...

@ nika - I did it,

@ nikki - peace and blessings. I wish you well in the future. And you made your choice to air it out publicly.. You said what you had to say to me in your email, so the post was just extra in my opinion. I guess I did have the courage to read and respond. I'm not a pussy as you stated in your post. That was the most fucked up thing about it.

@ durtymo - I just responded to the venom. I thought i was being civil about it. I didn't call her out her name like she did to me.

@ tjeanise - you got that? LOL

@ bloopty - you are freakin' hilarious. LMAO

@ mocha - you right about that. maybe this will be the last time

@ anon - that's what I'm saying. The same people who knew who I was talking about, knew who she was talking about.

@ missy - don't even worry about it.. sometimes 2 and 2 is 22

@ the goddess - sorry if I made you uncomfortable. I know you all about positivity

@ isis - yeah, i agree

@ sandybaby - don't worry about it, it's done

Tue Nov 14, 01:45:00 PM  
Blogger Miz JJ said...

Just passing through. Nothing to add.

Tue Nov 14, 01:54:00 PM  
Blogger NegroPino™ said...

Spreading ♥

Tue Nov 14, 02:19:00 PM  
Blogger ~rainbow~ said...

Tact much?


Hey Anon! How are ya girlie...mind just fading away also?! Thanks...


Tue Nov 14, 02:22:00 PM  
Blogger T. Cas said...

@ miz jj - nothing to see here. LOL

@ missy - I feel it. Thanks for the love.

@ Trish - check part 2, I think you will enjoy it

Tue Nov 14, 02:42:00 PM  
Blogger T. Cas said...

@ miz jj - nothing to see here. LOL

@ missy - I feel it. Thanks for the love.

@ Trish - check part 2, I think you will enjoy it

Tue Nov 14, 02:43:00 PM  
Blogger Dynasty said...


My 2 cents: I had no idea who you were talking about...if that means anything to anyone.

Tue Nov 14, 06:06:00 PM  
Blogger fallen angel said...

i "heart" both of yall dammit! and that's my story and im no only stickin' to THAT, but im also minding my own damn bizness!

Wed Nov 15, 02:23:00 AM  
Blogger The Stiltwalker said...

what the hell? this is the INTERNET people. Please find a hobby.

Wed Nov 15, 12:13:00 PM  
Blogger SynSational said...

Um, m'kay.

Wed Nov 15, 05:09:00 PM  

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